The title might be a little misleading. I don't really know what Johnny has heard this week. This is what I do know: Johnny heard something. We have seen some responses as he has been wearing his processor, but obviously there is still progress to be made and work to be done. Today, for the first time, we were making one of THE sounds, and Johnny began imitating it, so I know he heard that. It will be a long road to him speaking and listening.
It has been interesting to hear and see people's responses. Going into a store the other day, I noticed a man staring at it. Not just a curious look, or double take, but staring, with a look of bewilderment on his face. I thought, "what, you've never seen a kid with a cochlear implant before?" Then I thought, I really hadn't before we found out about Johnny and Eliza, so he probably hadn't either.
Most people that we have talked to have asked if it has just been amazing to see him respond to all the sounds. Our family is excluded here, because we prepared them for the reality. People think it is like wearing glasses. You put them on, and you can see. It is completely different with the cochlear implant. Johnny has to learn how to hear and listen now, and it will take a lot of hard work. So the answer is, it hasn't been much different yet. It will be amazing over time, but not just yet.
The one thing that has come out of it has been the opportunity to explain to people our thoughts on the whole kids being deaf thing. A lot of people assumed, in the hearing world, that we were doing this to fix our kids, so they wouldn't have a tragic life where they missed out on all the wonderful sounds around them. It has been a great opportunity to explain that our kids being deaf was never a tragedy. It may have been a comedy at times, or a drama, but never a tragedy.. Tragedies always have unhappy endings, and that wasn't ever going to our kids' lives. Johnny is 2 and a half years old. He is healthy and happy. He talks a lot (using his hands), he loves Batman and all things super hero, he loves trains and cars and frogs and bugs and dogs. He loves his little sister, sometimes too much. He knows who Jesus is, and he loves Him. He loves mom and dad, his grandmas and grandpas. Where's the tragedy? He is just like any other kid. We did not get him the implant to fix him, to make him just like everyone else. We didn't get him one because we felt like he was missing out on life. He wasn't. He is an incredible little boy, who can do so much, with or without the implant. We got the implant, not for him, but for others. To help others get over the communication barrier with him. My wife and I are learning sign, and teaching it to him, and he is amazing at it. That will always be his language of choice, I think. He will never have to work at signing as hard as he will at listening and talking. The reality is that the rest of the world will not cater to him. The implant is just a tool for him to communicate with others, make his life a little easier. It is not what is going to make his life complete, because it wasn't missing anything.
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